Wednesday, January 14, 2015
Sorority Sisters Cancellation: Solidarity or Hypocriscy??
What's up people! Welcome, once again, to my social commentary posts. You already know, if it's not controversial, it's just boring. Hope everyone's having a splendid 2015 thus far, and hopefully you're sticking to that resolution you made. Boy do I have a good one up for discussion, and as usual it may ruffle some feathers. With that said, let's go!!
One of my first posts was about the controversy over Adult Swim's show Black Jesus, in which people wanted to protest over the show's content, which depicted a Black man who stated he was the Son of God and was going through Compton streets doing miracles and bringing people together, albeit complete with weed usage and explicit language. The Christian community was in outrage over a show that, to them, was blasphemous and mocking their faith. I had stated then that it was stupid and hypocritical considering there were plenty of other shows that were worse that pretty much these same people were co-signing. The show wasn't meant to be taken seriously. It was a satire, but in spite of this fact, there were also deeper meanings within each episode. Aaron McGruder, former genius behind The Boondocks (an almost equally controversial show) knew what he was doing when he made Black Jesus. Thankfully, the show made it through the rest of the season without a hitch. Right now, one show isn't as lucky.
VH1's Sorority Sisters, another brilliant (sarcasm) show created by Mona Scott, has met its demise due to protests and sponsorships being terminated. The show was about a few young Black women who were all a part of Black sororities such as Alpha Kappa Alpha, Zeta Phi Beta, and Delta Sigma Theta. The show portrayed these ladies in typical ratchet elegance as the rest of Mona's shows, only this time these women represented prestigious organizations within the Black community. To much dismay, the channel decided to cancel the show and let it finish up the last three episodes on Friday the sixteenth of January. Clearly the outcry, negative press, protests, and petitions to get the show removed worked and VH1 had to do what they had to do. Which now brings a couple of interesting points.
Let's start this off by saying I'm not Greek-affiliated, nor do I have anything against Greek organizations so this is NOT a bashing to any Greek organization, fraternity or sorority but this is my two or three cents anyway. With all the clear misrepresentation of us as Blacks on television, people feel the need to throw all this ill will towards a show like Sorority Sisters? Listen, I get it. I get that these women were part of highly respected and distinguished Greek organizations, therefore representing these sororities nationwide. However, as one person eloquently put it, "Once we start putting Greek letters over our culture as a whole, we're in more trouble than we thought". We've clearly shown that with enough voices and outcries, we can strike blows to these stations about what we will and won't tolerate in terms of representation. So, why not the rest of these shows that present us as drama-filled, fight-starting, foul-mouthed people? Keep in mind, that's just Black women. These same ignorant and ratchet people that we see on television week in and week out are seemingly put on pedestals from IG, Facebook and Twitter. Also keep in mind, two of the leading shows on network and cable television involve Black women positions of power, but being clear home wreckers and side chicks, three if you include Gabrielle Union's show on BET, Being Mary Jane. We celebrate these women, in spite of the characters they portray. Granted, I know these are fictional shows that if for nothing else, are excellently acted by some outstanding actresses so in many aspects they should be taken as grains of salt. However, we don't see any more positive women or women characters being presented. Gone are the Claire Huxtable-types and Elanor Emerson-types and even Gina Waters-types. Now we celebrate side chicks who just so happen to be powerful and chicks like Erica Mena and all these other so-called powerful women who are supposed to be representing Black women, or women, as a whole. With these reality shows, these are real people that are seen or at least portrayed by producers as certain ways. I think it's sad that the negative depiction of Black women on these shows as a culture take a back seat to those who are represented in Greek organizations. This is truly a problem. This is as bad or worse than the whole Black Jesus situation among Christians.
Let's do remember, this is still America. One can say, do, and present what they want because it's our freedom to do so. What in the hell is so hard about picking up the damn remote and changing the channel on your personal television? I understand that there's stuff that's offensive to you (and I'm talking to those that always feel the need to protest and raise hell about stuff they personally don't like and they feel it should be that way across the board for everyone else). You do NOT own these airwaves. Be fair. Greek or not. Yeah these women were acting as stereotypical as one would imagine on television nowadays, but this is one argument I got recently. One person stated that as soon as those letters were put on their jackets, they represented the organization as a whole. Here's the thing: when one works for an employer, no matter where they go, how they act in or out of that building is representing that company, especially professions within the educational, medical, and media fields. Also, as soon as you're born and become an adult, you're responsible for your culture and community as a whole. What's the difference? Has Greek life really taken the place of these truths? Let's see how many people protest upcoming shows like the show about the preacher who's on a dating show similar to the Bachelor or Flavor Of Love, but who's foul-mouthed mother will be partly responsible for picking out his "winner"? Let's see the Christian or church community come out to play for that one. When the subject of protesting this and other shows comes about...crickets. I do remember MTV did a show called Sorority Life, only dealing with White sororities. While there were similar outcries for that show, along with the show's spinoff Fraternity Life, they remained on for four seasons. People just stopped tuning in.
Keep this is mind as well. Mona, a Delta herself, won't stop her hustle of depicting us as imbeciles and idiots for the world to see simply because you protested her show and ultimately got her show cancelled. I bet the next show will be embraced with open arms that makes us look bad, as long as it's not Greek. PLEASE!!!! Priorities folks! Hopefully these same people who are doing the protesting and petitioning will start doing so with other Mona Scott shows in the future. Also, and this bears repeating over and over, you don't like what's being shown, turn to another channel people! Out of all these hundreds of channels and shows/movies to watch and you're blowing ass about one useless show??? Come on y'all. Should Mona be ashamed of herself, completely, but she she should also be ashamed of herself for how much buffoonery she's contributing to television.
That's all for now cats. I'm sure I'll get plenty of upset people either unfriend me or tell me off, but if that's the reaction this whole post has given you, then you're clearly part of the problem, not me. Check YOURSELF. If you're going to protest anything or anyone, it's Mona, period. ALL her shows are insulting to us, but you're playing into her hands and she's cashing in due to high ratings. Who are the real fools? That's it for now peeps. For those who are still hanging with me, check me out next time. Have a great Blessed week!
Wednesday, January 7, 2015
The 'Done' Generation: Is The Church Losing Its Followers??
What's up people! Happy New Year to everyone. I hope everyone had a great 2014, and I pray that you all will have an even better 2015. I'm intrigued about my first post of the new year, and this is a good and controversial one. With the very touchy subject matter, this again could potentially throw people off and maybe even get me some dislikes because this touches on the one subject most people, especially Christians, don't like to discuss: the apparent downward spiral of the church. Let me begin.
I recently ran across an article that was entitled "The Rise Of The 'Done With Church' Generation." After reading the article, it had dawned on me about how much church has changed. Times have changed to where those that are tired and have grown dismayed over church have decided to leave church altogether, or become what's called a "Doner". As in done with church, though not done with God. One man that was interviewed stated that the reason he was "done" was because he was "tired of being lectured to and being told what to do". While there could be any number of reasons why there are becoming more and more people leaving the church, I'll give my own two cents as to why I think this "Done" generation is increasing its numbers.
Clearly, the church is the backbone of any community, doesn't matter your race, color, or even denomination. The church is traditionally the place to go to get uplifted, inspired, and get fed some good spiritual food to help you along the way. However, as we Earthly, vain people like to do, we like to always put twists and spins on stuff. Let's examine what church really means. The word really means "community", which in turn means that a church is a community of people all brought together for the sake of praise and worship of a higher power. In the Bible, it states that "where two or more are gathered in my name, there shall I also be" (in reference to Jesus). Therefore, based on that scripture, two people could be considered a "church", at least in terms of the original definition. Somewhere along life's existence, man saw fit to divide into sections, thus called denominations. We have quite a few different types of denominations, whether they're Baptist, Pentecostal, Catholic, Moravian, or many others, all proclaim to be the correct denomination in terms of how to serve God. Already, that in itself is a problem. Even Non-Denomination is pretty much considered a denomination of sorts. This is where I'm confused. The Bible didn't state that Jesus was coming back for a specific type of church, He stated that He was coming back for "His church", which meant everyone that believed in Him as a community.
The church is supposed to be inclusive, not turn anyone away as long as their intentions were good and towards the furthering of their relationship with God, or if they need to experience who God is. The problem, one of many, is that WE as man has put statutes on what should and shouldn't be within our churches. I've become so very jaded about church for a little while now because I feel everyone is missing the point. There was a story that shocked a lot of people and provided some validity about why church is becoming so scrutinized. There was a man who had died that belonged to a church, but the church would not bury the man because he never paid his tithes in church. How incredibly insensitive and stupid can you be? There have many other ugly stories within church about greed, affairs, politics, and preachers giving members of the congregation HIV and still continuing to preach. What is sincerely going on? The Catholic church has been under heavy investigation for years concerning molestation claims with young boys but to also have all types of other idiotic and certainly unholy, mess is outrageous so I can see why so many people, especially young adults, have had it. Even those close to me have encountered unfair treatment by their own church for outside ventures that were paying good money to perform. Keep in mind, this man was/is a preacher and a musician, but because he performed jazz music in a restaurant, he was reprimanded by his own church and was suspended from preaching AT HIS OWN CHURCH for a couple of months. Dumbest thing ever right? Church people can REALLY get on my nerves because it becomes less about God and more about self-serving and self-interpreting necessities.
People get tired of also going to church to see a show. What do I mean? In the Black church, especially from what I've seen and encountered, shouting, or dancing under the power of the Holy Spirit, has become so common place and expected that it makes one wonder if people are doing it for a show. Why is there always that part of service, and it tends to happen always at the exact same time, when the shouting occurs? Traditionally, it was reserved mostly within the Pentecostal, Apostolic, and Holiness faith, but now everyone and everyone's church does it. This is no shade to anyone, this is just curiosity. I've done it myself and can tell you that it was from an experience and not an encounter I have every single day. Now in the church, it's become customary to the point of it becoming cliche, like you're expected to do it. Truthfully if I wanted a show, I'd watch Bobby Jones Gospel or Sunday Best (don't get me started about that show either).
Most 'Doners" are fed up with cliches, lectures about what will send them to hell that's never even mentioned in the Bible, and preachers living double lives. I could really piss people off about what the Bible tells us and how we twist them around for our own self-righteousness, but these "Doners" have every right to feel the way they feel about church nowadays. The church has become full of gossip stories instead of encouragement, and has become so full of cliches that it looks like a reality show in person. Let's not mention how certain churches treat people that don't have the required ten percent from earned income every Sunday (or Saturday if you're a Seventh-Day Adventist) and how they scorn you and ridicule you. For a long time the homosexual community was isolated and singled out because of their lifestyle, regardless of the fact that they served God and they knew God was still with them.
The question is, what's the answer to these people leaving the pews? Simple. Start treating them as flawed human beings. No better or worse than you. Ask them how church could help them. Stop being religious and start getting real. Bring back the community aspect and the down to earth nature of church. Church should be a community that's less about politics, who's the best dressed, who's sleeping with who, and all this stuff that is nowhere near Biblical, and more about the family, the marriage, and the sense of knowing that one is loved unconditionally. Churches, you're losing more than you're gaining. Embrace the principles of love and fellowship. Half of you preachers don't deserve to be preachers to begin with, but then again it's also starting to become big business plus it's a tax write-off. However to those that believe in what true church is, keep up the great work.
I know there will be some people that will continue to excuse and take up for the church and all they do because of their bias, and that's fine. They're within their right to do so. Just now, for you not speaking up about these things that are affecting the community as a whole, blood is on your hands too. I'm not anti-God, not in the least bit, I'm not even totally anti-church, but I'm anti-churches that play into cliches, falsehoods, political agendas WITHIN CHURCH ITSELF, and exclusion. Keep in mind, this is all my opinion so I'm more than entitled to it but please understand, the problem, churches, may not be these people being "heathens" or just being defiant of the church, the problem may just be YOU.
That's all for now folks. Until next time, keep celebrating the new year, and strive to be better than 2014.
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