Sorority Sisters Cancellation: Solidarity or Hypocriscy??

What's up people!  Welcome, once again, to my social commentary posts.  You already know, if it's not controversial, it's just boring.  Hope everyone's having a splendid 2015 thus far, and hopefully you're sticking to that resolution you made.  Boy do I have a good one up for discussion, and as usual it may ruffle some feathers.  With that said, let's go!!

One of my first posts was about the controversy over Adult Swim's show Black Jesus, in which people wanted to protest over the show's content, which depicted a Black man who stated he was the Son of God and was going through Compton streets doing miracles and bringing people together, albeit complete with weed usage and explicit language.  The Christian community was in outrage over a show that, to them, was blasphemous and mocking their faith.  I had stated then that it was stupid and hypocritical considering there were plenty of other shows that were worse that pretty much these same people were co-signing.  The show wasn't meant to be taken seriously.  It was a satire, but in spite of this fact, there were also deeper meanings within each episode.  Aaron McGruder, former genius behind The Boondocks (an almost equally controversial show) knew what he was doing when he made Black Jesus.  Thankfully, the show made it through the rest of the season without a hitch.  Right now, one show isn't as lucky.

VH1's Sorority Sisters, another brilliant (sarcasm) show created by Mona Scott, has met its demise due to protests and sponsorships being terminated.  The show was about a few young Black women who were all a part of Black sororities such as Alpha Kappa Alpha, Zeta Phi Beta, and Delta Sigma Theta.  The show portrayed these ladies in typical ratchet elegance as the rest of Mona's shows, only this time these women represented prestigious organizations within the Black community.  To much dismay, the channel decided to cancel the show and let it finish up the last three episodes on Friday the sixteenth of January.  Clearly the outcry, negative press, protests, and petitions to get the show removed worked and VH1 had to do what they had to do.  Which now brings a couple of interesting points.

Let's start this off by saying I'm not Greek-affiliated, nor do I have anything against Greek organizations so this is NOT a bashing to any Greek organization, fraternity or sorority but this is my two or three cents anyway.  With all the clear misrepresentation of us as Blacks on television, people feel the need to throw all this ill will towards a show like Sorority Sisters?  Listen, I get it.  I get that these women were part of highly respected and distinguished Greek organizations, therefore representing these sororities nationwide.  However, as one person eloquently put it, "Once we start putting Greek letters over our culture as a whole, we're in more trouble than we thought".  We've clearly shown that with enough voices and outcries, we can strike blows to these stations about what we will and won't tolerate in terms of representation.  So, why not the rest of these shows that present us as drama-filled, fight-starting, foul-mouthed people?  Keep in mind, that's just Black women.  These same ignorant and ratchet people that we see on television week in and week out are seemingly put on pedestals from IG, Facebook and Twitter.  Also keep in mind, two of the leading shows on network and cable television involve Black women positions of power, but being clear home wreckers and side chicks, three if you include Gabrielle Union's show on BET, Being Mary Jane.  We celebrate these women, in spite of the characters they portray.  Granted, I know these are fictional shows that if for nothing else, are excellently acted by some outstanding actresses so in many aspects they should be taken as grains of salt. However, we don't see any more positive women or women characters being presented.  Gone are the Claire Huxtable-types and Elanor Emerson-types and even Gina Waters-types.  Now we celebrate side chicks who just so happen to be powerful and chicks like Erica Mena and all these other so-called powerful women who are supposed to be representing Black women, or women, as a whole.  With these reality shows, these are real people that are seen or at least portrayed by producers as certain ways.  I think it's sad that the negative  depiction of Black women on these shows as a culture take  a back seat to those who are represented in Greek organizations.  This is truly a problem.  This is as bad or worse than the whole Black Jesus situation among Christians.

Let's do remember, this is still America.  One can say, do, and present what they want because it's our freedom to do so.  What in the hell is so hard about picking up the damn remote and changing the channel on your personal television?  I understand that there's stuff that's offensive to you (and I'm talking to those that always feel the need to protest and raise hell about stuff they personally don't like and they feel it should be that way across the board for everyone else).  You do NOT own these airwaves.  Be fair.  Greek or not.  Yeah these women were acting as stereotypical as one would imagine on television nowadays, but this is one argument I got recently.  One person stated that as soon as those letters were put on their jackets, they represented the organization as a whole.  Here's the thing: when one works for an employer, no matter where they go, how they act in or out of that building is representing that company, especially professions within the educational, medical, and media fields.  Also, as soon as you're born and become an adult, you're responsible for your culture and community as a whole.  What's the difference?  Has Greek life really taken the place of these truths?  Let's see how many people protest upcoming shows like the show about the preacher who's on a dating show similar to the Bachelor or Flavor Of Love, but who's foul-mouthed mother will be partly responsible for picking out his "winner"?  Let's see the Christian or church community come out to play for that one.  When the subject of protesting this and other shows comes about...crickets.  I do remember MTV did a show called Sorority Life, only dealing with White sororities.  While there were similar outcries for that show, along with the show's spinoff Fraternity Life, they remained on for four seasons.  People just stopped tuning in.

Keep this is mind as well.  Mona, a Delta herself, won't stop her hustle of depicting us as imbeciles and idiots for the world to see simply because you protested her show and ultimately got her show cancelled.  I bet the next show will be embraced with open arms that makes us look bad, as long as it's not Greek.  PLEASE!!!!  Priorities folks! Hopefully these same people who are doing the protesting and petitioning will start doing so with other Mona Scott shows in the future.  Also, and this bears repeating over and over, you don't like what's being shown, turn to another channel people!  Out of all these hundreds of channels and shows/movies to watch and you're blowing ass about one useless show???  Come on y'all.  Should Mona be ashamed of herself, completely, but she she should also be ashamed of herself for how much buffoonery she's contributing to television.

 That's all for now cats.  I'm sure I'll get plenty of upset people either unfriend me or tell me off, but if that's the  reaction this whole post has given you, then you're clearly part of the problem, not me.  Check YOURSELF.  If you're going to protest anything or anyone, it's Mona, period.  ALL her shows are insulting to us, but you're playing into her hands and she's cashing in due to high ratings.  Who are the real fools?  That's it for now peeps.  For those who are still hanging with me, check me out next time.  Have a great Blessed week!

The 'Done' Generation: Is The Church Losing Its Followers??

What's up people!  Happy New Year to everyone.  I hope everyone had a great 2014, and I pray that you all will have an even better 2015.  I'm intrigued about my first post of the new year, and this is a good and controversial one.  With the very touchy subject matter, this again could potentially throw people off and maybe even get me some dislikes because this touches on the one subject most people, especially Christians, don't like to discuss: the apparent downward spiral of the church.  Let me begin.

I recently ran across an article that was entitled "The Rise Of The 'Done With Church' Generation." After reading the article, it had dawned on me about how much church has changed.  Times have changed to where those that are tired and have grown dismayed over church have decided to leave church altogether, or become what's called a "Doner".  As in done with church, though not done with God.  One man that was interviewed stated that the reason he was "done" was because he was "tired of being lectured to and being told what to do".  While there could be any number of reasons why there are becoming more and more people leaving the church, I'll give my own two cents as to why I think this "Done" generation is increasing its numbers.

Clearly, the church is the backbone of any community, doesn't matter your race, color, or even denomination.  The church is traditionally the place to go to get uplifted, inspired, and get fed some good spiritual food to help you along the way.  However, as we Earthly, vain people like to do, we like to always put twists and spins on stuff.  Let's examine what church really means.  The word really means "community", which in turn means that a church is a community of people all brought together for the sake of praise and worship of a higher power.  In the Bible, it states that "where two or more are gathered in my name, there shall I also be" (in reference to Jesus).  Therefore, based on that scripture, two people could be considered a "church", at least in terms of the original definition.  Somewhere along life's existence, man saw fit to divide into sections, thus called denominations.  We have quite a few different types of denominations, whether they're Baptist, Pentecostal, Catholic, Moravian, or many others, all proclaim to be the correct denomination in terms of how to serve God.  Already, that in itself is a problem.  Even Non-Denomination is pretty much considered a denomination of sorts.  This is where I'm confused.  The Bible didn't state that Jesus was coming back for a specific type of church, He stated that He was coming back for "His church", which meant everyone that believed in Him as a community. 

The church is supposed to be inclusive, not turn anyone away as long as their intentions were good and towards the furthering of their relationship with God, or if they need to experience who God is.  The problem, one of many, is that WE as man has put statutes on what should and shouldn't be within our churches.  I've become so very jaded about church for a little while now because I feel everyone is missing the point.  There was a story that shocked a lot of people and provided some validity about why church is becoming so scrutinized.  There was a man who had died that belonged to a church, but the church would not bury the man because he never paid his tithes in church.  How incredibly insensitive and stupid can you be?  There have many other ugly stories within church about greed, affairs, politics, and preachers giving members of the congregation HIV and still continuing to preach.  What is sincerely going on?  The Catholic church has been under heavy investigation for years concerning molestation claims with young boys but to also have all types of other idiotic and certainly unholy, mess is outrageous so I can see why so many people, especially young adults, have had it.  Even those close to me have encountered unfair treatment by their own church for outside ventures that were paying good money to perform.  Keep in mind, this man was/is a preacher and a musician, but because he performed jazz music in a restaurant, he was reprimanded by his own church and was suspended from preaching AT HIS OWN CHURCH for a couple of months.  Dumbest thing ever right?  Church people can REALLY get on my nerves because it becomes less about God and more about self-serving and self-interpreting necessities. 

People get tired of also going to church to see a show.  What do I mean?  In the Black church, especially from what I've seen and encountered, shouting, or dancing under the power of the Holy Spirit, has become so common place and expected that it makes one wonder if people are doing it for a show.  Why is there always that part of service, and it tends to happen always at the exact same time, when the shouting occurs?  Traditionally, it was reserved mostly within the Pentecostal, Apostolic, and Holiness faith, but now everyone and everyone's church does it.  This is no shade to anyone, this is just curiosity.  I've done it myself and can tell you that it was from an experience and not an encounter I have every single day.  Now in the church, it's become customary to the point of it becoming cliche, like you're expected to do it.  Truthfully if I wanted a show, I'd watch Bobby Jones Gospel or Sunday Best (don't get me started about that show either).

Most 'Doners" are fed up with cliches, lectures about what will send them to hell that's never even mentioned in the Bible, and preachers living double lives.  I could really piss people off about what the Bible tells us and how we twist them around for our own self-righteousness, but these "Doners" have every right to feel the way they feel about church nowadays.  The church has become full of gossip stories instead of encouragement, and has become so full of cliches that it looks like a reality show in person.  Let's not mention how certain churches treat people that don't have the required ten percent from earned income every Sunday (or Saturday if you're a Seventh-Day Adventist) and how they scorn you and ridicule you.  For a long time the homosexual community was isolated and singled out because of their lifestyle, regardless of the fact that they served God and they knew God was still with them. 

The question is, what's the answer to these people leaving the pews?  Simple.  Start treating them as flawed human beings.  No better or worse than you.  Ask them how church could help them.  Stop being religious and start getting real.  Bring back the community aspect and the down to earth nature of church.  Church should be a community that's less about politics, who's the best dressed, who's sleeping with who, and all this stuff that is nowhere near Biblical, and more about the family, the marriage, and the sense of knowing that one is loved unconditionally.  Churches, you're losing more than you're gaining.  Embrace the principles of love and fellowship.  Half of you preachers don't deserve to be preachers to begin with, but then again it's also starting to become big business plus it's a tax write-off.  However to those that believe in what true church is, keep up the great work. 

I know there will be some people that will continue to excuse and take up for the church and all they do because of their bias, and that's fine.  They're within their right to do so.  Just now, for you not speaking up about these things that are affecting the community as a whole, blood is on your hands too.  I'm not anti-God, not in the least bit, I'm not even totally anti-church, but I'm anti-churches that play into cliches, falsehoods, political agendas WITHIN CHURCH ITSELF, and exclusion.  Keep in mind, this is all my opinion so I'm more than entitled to it but please understand, the problem, churches, may not be these people being "heathens" or just being defiant of the church, the problem may just be YOU.

That's all for now folks.  Until next time, keep celebrating the new year, and strive to be better than 2014. 

Survival Of The Fittest: There's A War Going On Outside

What's happening folks, it's been a good while since I've updated my social commentary blog.  Boy there's been a TON to cover since the last time I've posted anything, but guess what cats and dogs?  I'm BAAAACCCKKK!!!  We'll get right to it.  Warning: if you get offended by anything I'm about to say, I'm not going to apologize so just kindly remove yourself from my life.

One of my favorite anthems of all-time is Mobb Deep's "Survival Of The Fittest", hence the title of the piece.  Prodigy starts off the cut by stating "There's a war going on outside no man is safe from/you can run but you can't hide forever" That especially rings true today.  Over the weekend, two NYPD officers got gunned down in the Bed-Stuy section of Brooklyn, NY in a violent ambush.  Officers Wenjian Liu and Rafael Ramos were both shot in the head from a vengeful Ismaaiyl Brinsley, who later turned the gun on himself.  Leading up to the bloody attack, Brinsley reportedly shot his ex-girlfriend in the stomach not long before he went to social media and bragged that he was "about to put wings on some pigs", supposedly out of response to the deaths of Michael Brown and Eric Garner and the non-indictments of the officers involved.

After the subsequential epidemic of cops killing ordinary unarmed citizens over the past few years, especially within this year, the story of someone going vigilante (at least in his mind) doesn't surprise me.  Although there have been peaceful protests and marches stating 'Black Lives Matter", "All Lives Matter", or "Hands Up, Don't Shoot", there have also been counters to these protests and marches with people wearing shirts saying "#icanbreathe", which is obviously a slap in the face to the shirts that express anger towards the NYPD and their handling of Eric Garner that states "icantbreathe", as well as slogans that supporters of the NYPD came up with that stated "Breathe Easy...Don't Break the Law!"  From coast to coast, people virtually of all races have expressed outrage, frustration and anger to what appeared to be deaf ears about the injustices that various families have been experiencing.  We all knew that once the Ferguson fiasco happened, things would never be the same and would in fact get worse.  This is one case I wish I was wrong.

This is the part where I start ranting, so beware.  First off, anyone that condones what Brinsley did should should be wholeheartedly ashamed of themselves.  What purpose does offing two cops for nothing serve?  This cat didn't do it for the Brown family, Garner family or no other family for that matter.  First of all this cat had somewhat of a tracklist of crimes such as robbery in a couple of states.  Furthermore, how the hell did he do it for anybody else besides himself when he nearly killed his ex-girlfriend, who by the way is still in critical condition?  Plus he wanted to make himself an instant celeb by tweeting that he was going to commit the act (oh yeah, and he got reportedly over three hundred likes via Instagram by the way, like there are some real pieces of shit out here).  With all this being said, I feel sorry for these officers personal families and the friends that they left behind.  However, let's do a little history lesson.  Remember Amadu Dialo?  What about Sean Bell?  These are just a couple, a mere couple, of guys that had been gunned down like animals.  Did the NYPD give a damn about their families?  They clearly don't give two damns about Garner's.  There have been a terrible amount of families who have been unfortunately deeply affected from loss at the hands of the people that are supposed to protect and serve us.  There's also a video of a young twelve-year-old boy cuffed and detained, then a cop comes from behind and starts swinging away at this kid, who as I just said had been cuffed and detained.  Multiple other vids have popped up of cops brutalizing and/or harassing citizens, whom presented themselves as no physical harm or danger.  Here's the real:  there are SOME good cops out there that are doing their jobs, and I'm not going to say some of us don't put ourselves in very stupid situations so not all the blame can be put on cops, but what can be placed on them is the shooting of unarmed citizens, and then there's no accountability.  These sons of bitches are not being held accountable  thanks to these grand juries.  I'm not sure what's on these jurors minds that would make these assholes walk freely but now the blood is on these jurors hands.  These jurors have to walk around knowing they let killers walk and go free and live their lives smiling and happy go lucky, while these family don't have an ounce of justice to stand on, fucking cowards.  I don't feel sorry for the NYPD as a whole.  Nope.  Sorry.  I feel sorry for the individuals and their families.  Not the NYPD.  Fuck them as an organization because they protect and serve themselves.  Sure we call on them when there's an emergency situation we may need taken care of, but now we have to be under the assumption that somehow there will be some bullshit attached to us even calling.  Remember Marissa Alexander, the woman who fired warning shots at her abusive ex husband who had broke into her house?  Yeah let's not forget the fact that she was originally sentenced to thirty-three years in prison.  For self-defense????  Evidently, the "Stand Your Ground" law that states that you can fire upon someone if you fear severe bodily harm on your premises only goes for certain people.  Fortunately it got overturned, but stuff like this shows that even extreme distress, there's a chance we can't even depend on the people we're calling on to help us, and we may even mess around and get prosecuted somehow.  We'll get prosecuted and jailed if we take the law into our own hands, but we have to trust these cats to help us out of situations that require help or there may be impending death?

These are the issues we face, and I won't limit it to just Blacks, but Blacks are the ones the media show the most getting disrespected, abused, arrested, jailed, and murdered by the system that our tax dollars are paying to stay employed.  Rapper The Game caught some heat for a caption he posted a day after the murders of the Brooklyn officers occurred saying "Guess y'all can't breathe now either huh?" on IG and Twitter.  When asked to clarify his post, he stated that it was in response to those clown ass guys that was wearing the "#icanbreathe" t-shirts and smiling.  Now there's a hint of possible war against protestors and anti-police groups in New York.  Let's get this straight: it didn't become a "war" until two innocent cops got outted in broad daylight, but cases like Brown, Garner, Martin, Bell, Dialo, and the many others that have occurred.  I do have a bit of vengeance in my heart for those parasite assholes that made the lives of families living hells for them, but the cops that were gunned down in Brooklyn had nothing to do specifically with any of the situations.  When it comes down to it, all lives DO matter, even cops.  To the ones that are out here, just doing their job and have no ill will agendas or profiling issues, keep doing your thing, and we need more like you.  However, to those that aren't anything but crooked asses, who use the badge and gun to cover the fact that they're really KKK sons of bitches, you keep on doing what you're doing too, only problem is there will be more Issmaaiyl Brinsleys out there, and there are more of them than you think.  There truly is a war developing, right here in our own country.  The war isn't as much about racism, as it is about injustice.  This WON'T continue to be peaceful.

Until next time kiddies, stay safe this holiday season, and remember, keep your hands up, and pray they don't shoot!  However, to play devil's advocate, don't put yourselves in positions either to where incidences may occur.  Use your heads and celebrate life.  Before I go, I'm going to leave a certified hip-hop classic, one that's timeless, and in these times, still hold true, in fact now more than ever since the release of the song in '93, KRS-One's "Sound Of The Police", from his AMAZING masterpiece Return Of The Boom Bap album.  R.I.P. Mike Brown, Eric Garner, and all other innocent victims of the pigs, but also R.I.P. officers Liu and Ramos.  Prayers go out to their families during this time.

Injustice In Ferguson: America In Black & White

What's going on folks.  Hope everyone is having a safe and Blessed holiday.  Regardless of my personal feelings about the origin and beginning of Thanksgiving the holiday, it still seems to bring families together to reflect upon things they're thankful for and I hope everyone has lots to feel thankful and grateful for.  Unfortunately, this week saw the worse example of injustice this nation has seen in many years, dare I say since the 60s and 70s.  Unless you've been under a rock or you isolated yourself from anything that had to do with media, you're aware of the sickening display of blatant injustice exhibited in Ferguson, Missouri.  Over the summer, this once unknown city became a lightning rod for controversy over the slaying of eighteen-year-old Michael Brown from Officer Darren Wilson.  What had the nation in an uproar was the fact that the kid was unarmed at the time of the shooting.  After over three months of hearing from witnesses and from Wilson himself before a grand jury, they finally deliberated, only to have the chief prosecutor state at 9:15 EST that Wilson wasn't going to be indicted for his role in the death of the young Brown.  Tensions were already at a searing point with the citizens of the town.  Throughout that day, people started to merge outside the Hall Of Justice as they were expecting Wilson to, at the very least, face indictment.  Once the decision was made known, all hell broke loose, and that's putting it mildly.

Within minutes, fires were started, looting started to commence, and people were getting hurt and/or killed, as well as arrested.  While people such as Michael Brown Sr. and others were begging the citizens that, no matter what, rioting wasn't the answer, the citizens weren't hearing any of it.  The scene resembled that of the infamous riots of Birmingham, Watts, and of course the most recent notable riot, the L.A. riots of 1992 following the acquittal of the officers involved in Rodney King's brutal beatdown.  Many would say that the city was ready for armageddon no matter if there was an indictment or not.  If there wasn't, there would've been a monstrous block party that likely would've been almost as wild.  Reporters doing standups and providing live coverage of the rioting were very much put in harm's way although none were seriously injured.  It was a chilling and surreal scene as the citizens, made up of mostly Black citizens, expressed their rage and frustrations over the decision by the grand jury.

Now for the rant, so be forewarned in case anyone gets pissed off here.  This was one hundred percent certified example of the fact that the more things change, the more they stay the same.  At first when I saw the prosecutor and he said that Wilson was cleared of all charges, I said that a war was about to develop, and it did.  The funny thing is, as much as I didn't condone the actions that were about to take place, I'm not going to lie and say that a part of me didn't understand their rage and their frustrations.  I felt the anger and resentment as a young Black man.  If we think about the slayings and murders of the likes of Trayvon Martin, Sean Bell, Amadu Dialo, and many, many others, this situation with Michael Brown was the cherry on top of the sundae if you will.  The gripping videos of R&B singer August Alsina crying on stage following the verdict as well as southern emcee Killer Mike breaking down on stage in St. Louis stating that he's scared for his twenty-year-old son and his eight-year-old son in this society were hard enough to view.  Then we see the video of a heartbroken and irate Leslie McSpadden, the mother of Michael Brown, weepingly almost uncontrollably over the decision and the outcry of Brown's stepfather to "Burn this bitch down", and you suddenly become one with the citizens of Ferguson.  To witness a mother's heartbreak, in the midst of what she, Brown's stepfather, and Brown father have had to endure, was nothing short of tear-jerking.

Simply put ladies and gentlemen: this country is full of shit.  The laws and rules of this nation weren't meant to protect a large portion of us.  At first, this was a racial issue to me, but then through time I realized this was even a little bigger than race and gender.  There have many non Blacks that have had their asses handed to them with injustice.  Although we're the most target and hunted, we're also not the only ones.  Before any self righteous asshole comes at me with the whole "Well Brown shouldn't have been acting how he was acting leading up to him getting killed", slap your fucking selves!  SO what he may or may not have been acting dumb, the bottom line is that he was unarmed.  Let me repeat that UNARMED.  End of the fucking argument.  Was there cause for rioting and looting?  No it wasn't.  However let me say this.  The people tried the peaceful protests and peaceful marches, and still there was no justice.  Nobody cared or even gave a damn about their concerns about this matter.  They felt their voices weren't being heard so they had to yell a little louder to get their attention, they likely felt.  The question is, what do you do when even peace doesn't work?  How do you explain peace and civility to a family who's college bound son was gunned down and the killer with a badge walked free without even facing so much as an involuntary manslaughter charge?

No disrespect or sought to my non-Black friends, but I've never or hardly seen any of you all get your asses kicked and/or murdered by the cops, much less have them beat you down, kill you, and then they walk.  The media doesn't show this.  This also leads me to another point if I may.  The media is full of shit too.  I've stated this quite often but it really does sadden me that we're always depicted as animals, thugs, robbers, crooks, rapists, beaters, and every other negative depiction you can think of.  The media is quick to believe this kid acting with ferocity against an officer, but not so quick to depict him as a family loving young man on his way to college.Likewise, they didn't show a ton of coverage of the peaceful demonstrations that were being held in Ferguson, but all over the riots.

I won't sit here and say that we don't have a ton of work to do in our own community.  In order for us to get taken seriously by the powers that be (if we ever will), we have to conduct ourselves like we have some sense and stop feeding into these things that America expects you to become.  We have no self worth, thus leading to self destruction.  I've often called out those that are quick to picket and protest when Whites and other non-Blacks commit crimes and injustices against us, but we do little to nothing when it comes to Pookie killing or raping Shaniqua.  We don't have marches and demonstrations about those things.  We may have occasional domestic violence demonstrations and child abuse demonstrations, but what about other crimes in our community?  Also, do you see anymore demonstrations about Trayvon?  Didn't think so.  Meanwhile that SOB Zimmerman is in custody, but not related to anything having to do with his cowardly actions towards that young man.  If we want the respect that we demand, it must start in the home, as in our own community.  Uplift and embrace each other, stop being the jokes that the media presents to the masses and start being the kings and queens that we descended from.  Remember, people are destroyed from the lack of knowledge.

Let's look at a couple other situations that have been in the news. Tamir Rice, who was tragically gunned down when he showed police a BB gun, and they had it "mistaken" for a real gun.  This sounds eerily similar to back in August, when John Crawford III was gunned down in Wal-Mart when he was playing with an unloaded air rifle, even when he was heard telling police "It's not real".  There's also Andy Lopez, the thirteen-year-old child that was killed by also having a fake gun.  These and other stomach-turning tragedies are reflections of how Police have been trained to now shoot first, ask later, even involving children.  They're the biggest cowards in the world, well depending upon whom you ask of course.  Back in '89, N.W.A. released "Fuck The Police" to much heat, but they were accurately depicting the abusive power of police.  Years later, criminally under appreciated duo dead prez dropped their AMAZING and powerful classic debut, let's get free, and one of the boldest cuts was "Police State", a dark, brooding cut citing the cowardly and unjust treatment of regular citizens.

I could go on and on about this topic, but I'll end with saying that the last shall be first.  We won't go out quietly.  To the people of Ferguson, do NOT give up.  To the family of Mike Brown, do NOT give up.  To Wilson and the police department of Ferguson, you must live with blood on your hands, and will not go unpunished.  Rioting may not be the answer, and I'm not going to condone those actions, but best believe Wilson woke up those that may have been sleeping.  To my Black community, stop being your own worst enemy.  There's strength in numbers, but we must stop being ignorant to the tricks of the establishment.  Once we chill out on the self-hate, imagine the power we'll have over the system?  Until next time, folks, have a wonderful holiday weekend!  Rest In Power Mike Brown.

What's Hot: Accusations, So-Called Deliverances, & Slaps

What's happening world?!  It's been a few weeks since I've done any of my blogs due to being back in the work force, but I'm back with a little time and BOY do I have a lot to go over and give my opinions on.  Controversial? You bet, but then again I wouldn't be me if I didn't tell my opinion of what the truth is concerning these matters.  With all that said, let's get to it, since I know you all have missed me and my views.

First off, let's start with the latest stem of news concerning iconic comedian Bill Cosby.  The man known for decades as "America's Favorite Dad", coming from his role as the memorable Cliff Huxtable from "The Cosby Show", has been the subject of quite a firestorm stemming from accusations of rape and sexual assault that have been dating back as long as the beginning of the millennium.  One such accuser stated that she was an aspiring actress in the late eighties.  She looked to Cosby as a mentor and he subsequently took her under her wing, according to the accuser.  There were moments, according to her, that she woke up with no clothes on in an altered state, similar to being drugged, and that they often happened during their interaction.  From there, thanks to another accuser that had said virtually the same thing about Cosby, these accusations have come back and have come back with vengeance.  However, now it's reached bigger levels in the digital age, as many have constructed Cosby memes saying the most damaging things and tweeting some extremely volatile accusations and insults concerning this matter.

Folks, until there's PROOF and court handling about this, SHUT UP!  Wait, I forgot.  This is a guilty until proven innocent country, especially in the court of public opinion.  In this digital age, it's very easy to spread a ton of venom and by all means, everyone should believe everything you see and read on the Internet (rolling my eyes).  Rape is one of the most damaging and life-altering situations in society and in lives.  Rape and sexual assault is NOTHING to be played with, minimized or ridiculed.  At the same token, if someone is screaming rape, it BETTER be the truth.  Once one is accused of it, it forever shatters their reputation.  Guilty or not, it changes them.  For Cosby's sake, of course I hope none of this is true.  Truthfully, however, even if he's not guilty and none of this is actually true, he'll remain scarred from this.  No his personal life hasn't been the most picturesque, especially with his marriage to Camille, but sexual assault and rape??  Although I don't put anything past anyone in today's times, this one I'll wait for this to go to court before I say anything else.

Next up, last weekend was the COGIC (Church Of God In Christ) annual Holy Convocation in St. Louis, MO.  During the service, a young man named Andrew Caldwell proudly stated that he had been "delivered' from homosexuality and that he was "attracted to womens" and that he didn't "like mens no more" (mens and womens...smh).  The video of it went viral and of course there was much scrutiny and conversation about the matter.  Many have accused him of being a "fake" and a con artist.  There was even a story that surfaced that stated he was a scam artist who raising money for the COGIC church.  Whether or not these accusations are true, which like the previous story, remains to be seen.

Folks, who really cares if got "delivered" from his homosexuality or not?  Really, who cares?  As a Christian myself, I'm a believer that God can deliver anyone from any affliction that you're having trouble with, especially when it's of a spiritual nature.  There has obviously been the age old debate of homosexuality being a sin.  I've already stated my opinion of the Bible in our times of today and its historical context, but this was clearly a personal matter to him.  I'm not a homosexual man, but I don't know how someone can turn from being attracted from one gender to another.  You're attracted to who you're attracted to, simple and plain.  Your lifestyle represents you and where your happiness dwells.  In an increasingly tolerant society towards the LGBTQ community, it was obviously an inner struggle he was dealing with, as we all know the church and especially the old school, traditional churchgoers look down, condemn, and judge members of this lifestyle.  It's hard enough being gay, much less a gay man, out here in the world based upon how the man is traditionally and naturally painted and presented.  Do I believe in the lifestyle? No I don't.  Do I accept them as people and human beings? Absolutely.  If this was what he felt he needed to do to get closer to God, that's his choice and decision.  I can't say there aren't any scam artists, con artists, phonies, and fakes in the church because quite frankly we see it often and it's honestly getting beyond ridiculous.  We've seen people delivered from addictions and other afflictions, but it's not often we see men or women delivered from their gay/lesbian lifestyles and maybe that's part of where the skepticism comes in.  Only time will tell and if he is a con artist, like scripture says:" What's done in the dark, shall come to the light".  Remember that, Caldwell.

The last story up for discussion is the story of Denay Howard and the slap heard around the viral world.  I first caught wind of this story on Worldstarhiphop and was floored.  If you haven't seen this firestorm of a video, take a look.




This was hideous.  I'm not talking about what the guy did to her either.  Folks, what you clearly saw was bullying and a crew of young ratchet ass girls being messy and simply put, they looked like idiots.  These chicks were slapping cameras out of people's hands and Ms. Howard hit this guy, who honestly sounded like he either had a developmental problem or was from another country originally, with her shoe as a weapon, acting reckless.  She got completely and utterly what she deserved, point blank period.  There are consequences folks to actions like this.  Initially, four people, including Howard, the young man in the video Jorge Pena, were all charged with felony assault.  However, charges were later dropped from Pena, stating he struck the ratchet ass Howard with self defense and rightfully so.

Weeks ago, I went IN on the story where a young man was assaulted by his baby mama with a pole, only later to get arrested by local police by her lying to the police telling then he struck her in a case of unfair, double standard justice when it came to domestic situations and assaults on women.  Before then, we saw Solange hitting and throwing shoes at Jay-Z in an elevator caught on security camera and how I thought it was deplorable that people would laugh and create memes about this when if the roles were reversed he would catch an enormous backlash.  In this case, this was crystal clear proof that men can get assaulted too (if the video of the man getting beat by a pole wasn't proof enough).  She completely, whole-heartedly, and totally was in all the wrong here, and I personally can't blame him.  He did what he had to do in the midst of getting bullied and getting hit by a shoe and a purse by one of her other stupid ass buddies.

On "The View", always outspoken Whoopi Goldberg repeated her stance on women hitting men and consequences, a point she made clear after the Solange/Jay-Z altercation.  Take a look at this clip.




Whoopi has been under the ire of women in the past for, what seemed like, condoning men hitting women in the past.  In my opinion, which is what counts on MY blog, she would've gotten the exact same tidal wave of hate tweets IF this wasn't caught on video and made viral.  She made the same point then, and she did in this clip, which was if you have the audacity and the nerve to put your hands on a man, don't just think he'll just accept and take that.  Enough of this victim, I'm a woman and I can do that, bullshit.  Seriously.  In the age of feminists and women screaming equality, this counts just as much.  If you dare strike a man, expect a jab back at your ass.  Simple.  If he should have to walk away from a highly mounting situation, she should too.  We've heard all about the Ray Rice situation and Adrien Peterson and other stars and athletes that put their Ike Turner wifebeater tees on, but it's considered unmanly and weak for a man to report a woman hitting and abusing them. It's a no win situation because of this double sided legal system.  I'm not an advocate for domestic abuse, but I don't condone anyone hitting anyone.  Men, keep your hands off women unless provoked.  Women keep your hands off men unless provoked.  It's not that damn hard.  Also, don't play the sympathy card either.  Nobody wants to hear that crap.  Those types of women sure weren't victims of anything when they would poke, spit, hit, slap, and injure men and not expect them to do anything, but they'll use the law on their side to get the man in trouble.  In this case, Pena did what he instinctively felt he needed to do, because she attacked him as a grown man, so that's what she got.  You don't like what I said?  So what, unfriend me, unfollow me, nobody cares, least of all me.  Consequences, nobody is above them, and as Howard and her friends were shown, if you play with fire enough times, you'll eventually get burned.

That's all for this week.  Thanks for hanging with me.  Until next time, have a great week!

Black On Black Hate???

What's happening friends and haters?!  It's been a couple of weeks since I have updated this social commentary blog but I'm back and I have a great topic of discussion that has become, other than the Ebola outbreak which I'll have an extensive amount to say about next week, the most controversial debate within the week.  Leave it to my friend and yours, NBA Hall Of Famer Charles Barkley to be in the middle of it.

Late last week, Charles Barkley did an interview, and he stated that Blacks were being targeted by other Blacks in terms of success.  He used the terms "uneducated" and "brainwashed" to describe these kinds of Blacks.  Here's a quote from that interview:

"For some reason, we're brainwashed to think that if you're not a thug or an idiot, you're not Black enough.  If you go to school, make good grades, speak intelligent, and don't break the law, you're not a good Black person."

There has been mixed opinions about that viewpoint from Sir Charles.  Many co-signed his stance about self hate within our community, while others felt he was being totally self righteous and demoralizing the Black community.  This came off the heels of the rather slanderous accusation that Seattle Seahawks QB Russell Wilson wasn't "Black enough" according to his teammates.  Wilson, reportedly, was getting this kind of reaction from teammates of his due to his closeness with the front office and management.  There, in tow, lies the problem.

I'm personally trying to see why so many of us are discontented and angry with what he stated.  What part of that truth are these people not accepting?  As a person that has been labeled as an "Oreo", "Wannabe" and all those derogatory terms due to my educational growth within a majority White, Catholic based institution from Kindergarten through my senior year of high school, I'm a living witness to how self-deprecating our own culture can be because you're still expected to "keep it real" or "represent" or any of those terms that truthfully should've stayed in the early nineties.  I was one of those kids that was raised off and on in the hood, but went across town to get my education, my mother's choice, not mine.  Some of my own neighborhood friends, while just playing (I think), referred to me as a "White boy", in spite of the fact that I'm actually a dark-skinned chocolate dude (shouts to Michael Jordan and Wesley Snipes for making it easy to be a dark skinned cat out here.  You guys are pioneers).  I didn't get it.  Yes, I had extended vernacular and vocabulary.  Yes, I had quite a few friends that were White.  Yes, my clothes all came from the mall and were kind of high.  None of that was my fault.  The crazy thing was that I never threw it up in their faces.  I was still "down" with them all, even involving myself in stuff I had no business in doing at times just to fit in.  There, in tow, is the ambiguity.  Not only am I trying to fit in at school just to have a friend or two, but I also have to fit in with my own neighborhood and community as well.

As I got older and became an adult, I realized how stupid that was.  There are those Blacks that don't even like associating with fellow Blacks in no way, shape, or form.  Although I completely disagree with excluding your fellow Black man or woman from your life, that's your prerogative and decision. It's not bringing or taking money to or from my wallet.  How is it that we're all about "unity" and "coming together" but we still have issues doing just that.  We're very quick to protest, scream racism,  and all these other beat-my-chest moments to proclaim pro-Blackness.  However, we can also be the biggest hypocrites of any culture.  We scream success, but you still have to talk crass, wear team jerseys, and do and say other completely idiotic things just to "stay down" or "stay real".

There are certain traits that you apparently must have in order to be considered a "real Black": you must be either an athlete, have lots of children especially out of wedlock, know what's "hot" on the radio, and have some sort of brush with the law.  That's not a slanderous comment.  That's the view of these ignorant jackasses that continuously feel the need to define what "Blackness" is.  There are people that feel Black people should only go to HBCUs (Historically Black Colleges & Universities for the uninformed), thus completely supporting segregation, something our parents and grandparents were fighting for, and even died over, just so we could at least try and obtain a better life.  The funny thing is, our current president Barack Obama is an ivy league graduate, as well as First Lady Michelle.  Nobody dares to question his Blackness, even though he's only half-Black (in our culture that's considered all-Black).  However, we'll question each other's Blackness because of that same fact of going to and/or graduating from ivy league institutions like Yale, Harvard, Stanford, or Columbia?  To those people: GROW UP!

Let's examine this from another perspective.  Let's take Chris Rock.  He's one of the most famous and successful comedians in entertainment.  His early life was portrayed for the world in his wonderful and mostly autobiographical sitcom, "Everybody Hates Chris".  His life was almost like mine.  Young kid living in Bedstuy, Brooklyn but getting his education across town at an all White school.  He was bullied, called names daily, and had to always prove himself to somebody.  The only difference between my life and his was that he had siblings and I didn't.  I applaud ANY Black that succeeds, without having to answer to the stigma of what being "down" represents.  We can be our own worst enemy and the biggest hypocrites out there.  We legitimately can be just as big of a threat to our endeavors as White supremacy and that's the honest truth.  I don't care if you like it.  It's not nor will it ever be my concern.

What Charles said was spot on.  I don't agree with some things he tends to say, but he was one hundred percent accurate about his assertion of what I call Black On Black Hate.  If you're angry or uncomfortable with his comments, you must be one of those same crabs in a barrel that he was referring to.  You just simply need to check your own ignorant selves and access your growth spurt.  Blacks, in general, have more than enough mountains that we must climb without our own bringing us down too.  The term "too Black" or "too White" are devaluing and shows lack of character.  Several people have stated, "If being White means using correct grammar, correct spelling, getting straight A-averages, and staying out of trouble, I'll be the Whitest person I can be."  Questionable approach, but definitely the sentiment speaks volumes.  Sometimes, hell in fact most times, the truth hurts.  It's comfortable.  It can be quite unsettling.  Often times, it's used for outward and inward clarity.  If the truth hurt you about what Barkley said, start asking yourself why. If you have a problem with it, you're the problem. Start with yourself first then proceed from there.  We seriously have a character problem within our community and conversations and topics like this are meant to get to the meat and bread of the matter.  Stop hating on your own Blacks successes.  Embrace them.  Stop with the whole "too Black" or "too White" crap.  We'll come together when we're the victims of injustice.  How about coming together for the uplifting of our successes and the encouragement to move on from our failures.  That's all for now folks.  God willing, I'll get at you all next week in the social commentary blog.

The Cold Day In Hell Has Arrived

Welcome folks.  Glad you made it back with me today, and boy did you come back for a red hot moment.  This is actually breaking news for us here in NC.  About four hours ago, the same-sex ban was lifted and declared "unconstitutional", which means homosexual couples can marry as soon as possible.  If you've been in NC long enough, or for that matter in the South, you know this is a landmark decision.  Practically the entire southern region of the U.S. is red (for those unaware, that means they're Republican-ran states).  For years, southern states forbade the union of same sex couples.  This marks the first state in the South to allow same sex unions.  I would imagine this has caused a massive stir in the red states, with their bigotry and close-minded views.

I won't spend too much time on this situation, simply because there's not much to be said.  I'm don't necessarily "agree" with LGBTQ lifestyle, but they're no less human beings than anyone else.  Nobody has the right to tell people who they can and can't love and marry.  NOBODY.  Remember when it was illegal for men and women of different races (primarily Black and White) to marry?  Whomever one is attracted to is on them.  Maybe it's true: the heart wants what it wants.  It's a shame when there has to be governmental regulations as to who you can fall in love with.  I may not agree with the lifestyle nor do I understand it, but the thing is, it's not for me to, and I'm content with that.  So should everyone else.

Wait, let's let the traditional Christians get their say-so in here.  Come on with the "homosexuality is an abomination" speech and the telling of Sodom and Gomorrah.  As much as The Bible has been such a crucial part of my upbringing, but truthfully...well just go to last week's piece to see what I had to say about Christianity and its history.  The crazy thing is that the King James Version of The Bible, the most revered and cross-generational version of any version of the Good Book, was made by (gasp!) a homosexual man.  Go figure.

Let's try letting them live in peace and happiness.  This is a major victory for the LGBTQ community, but truthfully this is a victory for every other culture that says "you can't fall in love with anyone we don't feel you should fall in love with or marry."  There are FAR more important issues plaguing our country than people raising hell about who someone can or can't marry.  The truth of the matter is that times are continuing, whether we like it or not.  Whether we're progressing or regressing is completely subjective.  Maybe it's a little of both, but whatever the case, you either adapt or get left behind.  The rules apply to everybody, including me.  That's all for now kiddies.  See you next week, God willing!  Let's come together, not separate more than we already have done.